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I was *never* a bar person. I thank Golly G because 'most' "bar people" don't have what I would consider a "successful" life story.
Being 20-something and spending every paycheck-leftover in a bar is one thing.
But somebody in their 30s or 40s without a dime to their name because of how much they spend at bars is another thing entirely.
I'm not trying to sound judgey or whatever, I've just seen too many people whose lives were RUINED by bars, *never* "improved" by them.
In the 90's, I was what we called a "Rink Rat".
In Canada, the slang term deals with ice hockey.
I was not into ice hockey.
Our city used the term for teens that spent each and every weekend roller skating at the roller rink - ie, "rink rat".
We skated to songs of every genre, including Cotton Eye Joe.
Being 20-something and spending every paycheck-leftover in a bar is one thing.
But somebody in their 30s or 40s without a dime to their name because of how much they spend at bars is another thing entirely.
I'm not trying to sound judgey or whatever, I've just seen too many people whose lives were RUINED by bars, *never* "improved" by them.
In the 90's, I was what we called a "Rink Rat".
In Canada, the slang term deals with ice hockey.
I was not into ice hockey.
Our city used the term for teens that spent each and every weekend roller skating at the roller rink - ie, "rink rat".
We skated to songs of every genre, including Cotton Eye Joe.
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Yeah, I don't know, I've also over the years, when I used to go to clubs, I did see how it destroyed relationships and like you wrote, I think in your 30's and 40's + when money is tight its irresponsible to spend all your money in a bar. I don't miss bars or clubs at all - part of a dark past that I just assume to put behind me. I also used to roller skate when I was a child and it was fun going to the skating rink. Most of the roller skating rinks have closed their doors from lack of interest - and that is too bad. Was fun! A lot of community activities has vanished and people have become isolated (including myself) . I was a good boy in my teens and stayed out of trouble and was always in the house by 9 PM every night to watch TV with my father. I managed to graduate from high school somehow; how ... I lucked out I guess. Of course he has long passed away and my mother also passed away last year. I've processed it and am OK but my family is a mess and I'm not even on speaking terms with most of my extended family. That I guess was the only thing about going to clubs was the acceptance. But I'm in my 50's now and that is for young guys. Right now I prefer peace and quiet. Right now so many families and friendships are/were destroyed by politics and religious differences. I would never go crawling back to them because I did nothing wrong.The-10-Pen wrote: ↑27 Jan 2026, 10:17 I was *never* a bar person. I thank Golly G because 'most' "bar people" don't have what I would consider a "successful" life story.
Being 20-something and spending every paycheck-leftover in a bar is one thing.
But somebody in their 30s or 40s without a dime to their name because of how much they spend at bars is another thing entirely.
I'm not trying to sound judgey or whatever, I've just seen too many people whose lives were RUINED by bars, *never* "improved" by them.
In the 90's, I was what we called a "Rink Rat".
In Canada, the slang term deals with ice hockey.
I was not into ice hockey.
Our city used the term for teens that spent each and every weekend roller skating at the roller rink - ie, "rink rat".
We skated to songs of every genre, including Cotton Eye Joe.
I guess that was very off topic and more of a ramble - sorry about that. Thank you for reading.
EDIT: Sorry about all those typos - I think I fixed them.
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Better to accept yourself rather than to seek it out from others because people will always disappoint you and the only one you can rely on is yourself when the going gets rough. I see things differently now that I'll be 54 in a few months.xperceniol_sal wrote: ↑28 Jan 2026, 01:15...That I guess was the only thing about going to clubs was the acceptance...
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this album got some insane production, shame its surrounded by Kanye's worst crashout and other controversies
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I'll have to boycott this one!
"Covid masks" are an IMMENSE psychological TRIGGER that I cannot control (or just DON'T WANT TO) !!! I have WALKED OUT of stores, restaurants, gas stations, salons, YOU NAME IT, all on account of employees wearing the D@MN THINGS !!!
The only real "told-you-so" BENEFIT of the "covid mask" is that when you see RIOTS in the streets, stores getting LOOTED, grandma's being kidnapped and the porch camera catches the suspect, PUBLIC MASS SHOOTINGS, YOU NAME IT, they are *ALWAYS* wearing COVID MASKS !!!
We live in a society where people should be PUT IN JAIL for NOTHING MORE than HIDING THEIR D#MN FACE !!!
The NON-LAW-ABIDING always always ALWAYS *HIDE* behind a d@mn COVID MASK !!!
But I digress...
"Covid masks" are an IMMENSE psychological TRIGGER that I cannot control (or just DON'T WANT TO) !!! I have WALKED OUT of stores, restaurants, gas stations, salons, YOU NAME IT, all on account of employees wearing the D@MN THINGS !!!
The only real "told-you-so" BENEFIT of the "covid mask" is that when you see RIOTS in the streets, stores getting LOOTED, grandma's being kidnapped and the porch camera catches the suspect, PUBLIC MASS SHOOTINGS, YOU NAME IT, they are *ALWAYS* wearing COVID MASKS !!!
We live in a society where people should be PUT IN JAIL for NOTHING MORE than HIDING THEIR D#MN FACE !!!
The NON-LAW-ABIDING always always ALWAYS *HIDE* behind a d@mn COVID MASK !!!
But I digress...
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Catching an airborne pathogen with a cloth mask is like trying to trap a mosquito with a chainlink fence.
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They are not "covid" masks, they are medical masks.
Ask yourself why surgeons, nurses, etc, are using them if they are useless

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NOT RELEVANT... and BIASED... I'll even label it as "intentionally misleading the public"...
Ask those surgeons if they did NOT sterilize their hands and even their ELBOWS before putting that mask on?
Ask those surgeons if everything not only in the "operating room" but the room LEADING INTO the "operating room" was also sterilized?
Ask those surgeons if they wear the same mask for more than a couple hours MAX?
Ask those surgeons if they find it "acceptable" to use CLOTH MASKS, wash them in a household washer/dryer, and use that CLOTH MASK for surgery?
Ask those surgeons if they'll pull it down over their NECK OR CHIN and then restore it to over their NOSES?
Ask those surgeons if they'll hang it from their rearview mirror in-between uses?
Ask those surgeons if they'll so much as take it off and on and reuse over and over and over?
Ask those surgeons if that mask was PROVIDED TO THEM in the LOBBY and from a BOX OF MASKS as they entered the hospital from outdoors?
Ask YOURSELF if you would let a SURGEON operate on you if they handled their mask as a COVID MASK instead of as a MEDICAL MASK?
GET THE D#MN PICTURE ???
Ask those surgeons if they did NOT sterilize their hands and even their ELBOWS before putting that mask on?
Ask those surgeons if everything not only in the "operating room" but the room LEADING INTO the "operating room" was also sterilized?
Ask those surgeons if they wear the same mask for more than a couple hours MAX?
Ask those surgeons if they find it "acceptable" to use CLOTH MASKS, wash them in a household washer/dryer, and use that CLOTH MASK for surgery?
Ask those surgeons if they'll pull it down over their NECK OR CHIN and then restore it to over their NOSES?
Ask those surgeons if they'll hang it from their rearview mirror in-between uses?
Ask those surgeons if they'll so much as take it off and on and reuse over and over and over?
Ask those surgeons if that mask was PROVIDED TO THEM in the LOBBY and from a BOX OF MASKS as they entered the hospital from outdoors?
Ask YOURSELF if you would let a SURGEON operate on you if they handled their mask as a COVID MASK instead of as a MEDICAL MASK?
GET THE D#MN PICTURE ???
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I will, however, disqualify this SARCASTIC "joke".The-10-Pen wrote: ↑16 Mar 2026, 09:41 Catching an airborne pathogen with a cloth mask is like trying to trap a mosquito with a chainlink fence.
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I'm sorry my song triggered you - I have my triggers also and they make for a rough day. Though, that song wasn't about Covid masks if you watched it ... it was a remix of an old song from the 90's and computer bandits.The-10-Pen wrote: ↑16 Mar 2026, 09:36...IMMENSE psychological TRIGGER that I cannot control (or just DON'T WANT TO) !!!
Now I feel like shit that you guys are fighting
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ps - it's not "fighting"... OPINIATED people can "spout" without it being labeled as a "fight"...

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Although it's not a joke but truth.The-10-Pen wrote: ↑16 Mar 2026, 16:06I will, however, disqualify this SARCASTIC "joke".The-10-Pen wrote: ↑16 Mar 2026, 09:41 Catching an airborne pathogen with a cloth mask is like trying to trap a mosquito with a chainlink fence.
Cloth masks are almost useless, medical masks are efficient
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Regardless... I stand by each and every one of my previous questions... Each..And..Every..One..Of..Them...
And I firmly believe that people that wear masks in public are not doing so for "health and safety".
NO SURGEON wears their "medical mask" WHILE GROCERY SHOPPING !!!
If I see somebody walking up and down the sidewalk outside my house HIDING HIS FACE, then I'm calling the POLICE !!!
Because rioters wear masks, looters wear masks, people that kidnap grandmas and seek ransom in bitcoin wear masks !!!
And I firmly believe that people that wear masks in public are not doing so for "health and safety".
NO SURGEON wears their "medical mask" WHILE GROCERY SHOPPING !!!
If I see somebody walking up and down the sidewalk outside my house HIDING HIS FACE, then I'm calling the POLICE !!!
Because rioters wear masks, looters wear masks, people that kidnap grandmas and seek ransom in bitcoin wear masks !!!
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